How do you effectively use a desensitizing gel on your penis without it affecting your partner? -

Is there an optimal time to wait until intercourse? Last time I used some, my wife said that it numbed her a bit too.

Yeah, Karl is right.

yeah I had that problem too...I think you re supposed to get an erection, spray it on, wait like 15-30 minutes, then go have sex...the stuff works, but who wants to feel nothing during sex? I prefer the male multiple orgasm method, where you learn to cut off the ejaculation while you orgasm...this allows you to keep your erection, and keep on going...you repeat the process each time you re gonna have an orgasm, and when you get good at it, you can practically go forever

indeed, use the gel with a condom over it, or let it sit for five to ten minutes, then wash it off thoroughly before intercourse.

Put the gel on...then a condom on top of that.

use a condom.