Is there anyway around causing someone pain when you have a big penis? -

alright this is a tad awkward, but here it is, I have this problem, or at least i think its a problem, because my penis is 9 and a half inches long, (and i know that probaly sounds rediculous but unfortunetaly its true) and I cant seem to make love to my girlfriend without her crying or motioning that shes in pain, and its actually really upsetting, is there any way around this?

Its a common question, so I ll take your word for it. My penis is about an inch smaller and I still have the same problem sometimes. What it comes down to is lots of lubrication and just exercise that vaginal opening by stretching it - gently. Then just make sure you do not penetrate her so deeply. You can get around the depth issue by doing it doggy style. When a woman gets on her knees and arches her back, it helps to elongate the vagina to allow for deeper penetration. And when a man is on his knees, his back tends to arch, which can help shorten the overall length of the penis. That and about an inch more space is generated between the her thighs and the vaginal opening. You can also try some analgesic cream. They can help to desensitize the skin around the vagina. But if you re not wearing a condom it ll affect you too. All in all your best bet, short of using pain pills or alcohol, is to use your fingers to work as stretching her vagina to accommodate your penis. Then slowly, and gently, practice using your penis. But the length issue, there is no way around that, short of just being careful and trying difference positions. Understand it may simply be that she is too petite for you. [edit] if you try to have sex reverse missionary style you may find that your penis bends before it penetrates your partner. And trust me - that hurts!

Just continue to have sex on a regular basis (gently), and she should eventually quot;adaptquot; to your penis. If, after a few months, she doesn t, she may also have a fairly uncommon condition that causes pain during intercourse, and she d want to talk to her doctor or gyno about it.

When you go all the way into her, you re probably touching her cervix. It s a very sensitive area and often is painful, even when only touched slightly. The best way around it is to not go in so deeply. If she has an issue with your girth, the only way to make it better is to stretch her out the fun way :)

we all know you are too concerned about your penis being too small. don t lose heart. a lot of men have small penises. you will do fine. focus your energy on your skills and other things in life and do well... a lot of men who are successful in life have had small penises and it wasn t a problem for them.

yeah I was gonna suggest her being on top so she can control how much of you she wants...don t do doggy that s the deepest penetration in my opinion...just be really gentle make sure shes nice and wet before you go in or use lube and consider fingering her first

when you had such that big tool, it is preferable to make her in control to determine how much she wants from all of this. make a long foreplay for her to get some lubricant inside her vagina

Try a another position on top to make her feel sensation during sex, and make sure you wear a condom, plus I would have to do the same thing to please a woman in need.

Oral. And go really slowly. Shallow thrusts. You could also try her on top. It s a completely different sensation.

dont go as far in..thats all you can do

try different positions till one works without pain

have her lay on her side and enter her that way between her legs. its a fairly shallow position. my gf and i both love it. oh and make sure she s either really wet, or get some lube!

butt sex.