I cant for the life of me understand this (because I m obviously a woman), but why do men think it matters how big their penis is? I personally only care about the GUY, not his penis.
Men have always found this a point of insecurity for many reasons. Primarily, society has ingrained it in men that having a bigger penis is preferable to a small or even average sized penis. Look at movies, pop culture, and even pornography for evidence of this. Not to mention, having a larger penis is viewed as being more quot;masculinequot;, and as such, guys want to have a larger member to fit this masculine stereotype. Additionally, having a larger member in most guys minds makes it easier to pleasure a women, which is not entirely true. Though, it s just a misperception that s been perpetuated by a society. That s my best guess, anyways.
I don t understand it myself, and I m a guy. You got what ya got, so learn to work with it. It s just one of those stupid, superficial things that grow in society. Women won t date short men, guys won t date girls with flat chests, ladies won t date men who are hung like a mouse. Report Abuse
I m not implying everyone is like this, but there are some who are. A few a s s holes riding my tail in 5 o clock traffic gives me the idea that all drivers are a s s holes, even though only some are. Report Abuse
Its a guy thing, kinda like a measurement of how much of a man you are i guess. Its the same as how most girls worry about their breast size, and butt size. So its not only guys that are insecure about themselves. And its very hard to convince a guy that his size doesn t matter, mainly because most watch some sort of porn. So they all see how big those guys are, and how much the girls like it so there you have it. Porn ruins a guys self-esteem.
only y insecure fags and the like who think they have something special and are nothing of a person talk as if they are all that because of it. Like the the great black myth it is a semi false stereotype use d to equate people who are basically lesser people. but all that hype make some feel insecure because of the unnecessary pressure to compete , I m guessing tho because i really cant speak from any first hand knowledge. ;]
They are scared they wouldn t please their partner. Size doesn t really matter unless you are tiny to the point where intercourse is impossible. I think mostly young adolences ask these questions. Going through puberty is difficult, and in America where movies and tv lead our children make it worse. I don t understand why the men s health section is always flooded with these questions. Especially when they are asked millions of times before.
Some women are shallow though, and they do care about that stuff. I agree with you though, I really don t care about the size of a guys penis. It s not like it s an important thing. I mean, even if you look at it in relation to sex the size isn t gonna help. If a guy is bad in bed the size of his penis isn t gonna make any difference.
It is true many guys are insecure about whether they measure quot;upquot;. While it is easy to dismiss this as guys being immature or fixated on sex; however, they hear enough girls openly talk about a guy s size, and whether they re big or small: This only serves to perpetrate any insecurities they might have.
We like to know what size we are. Freud said one time that when a child sees his father naked and sees his penis, it obviously is bigger than the childs, but the child will think he doesn t compare for a long time even though he does. At least I think Freud said that. Hope this helps!
Personally for me... ever since i was little (age), i heard the saying bigger is better applied to sever things, and with the media re- enforcing that myth, men tend to start thinking that it is true. idk bout anyone else, thats just me!
I guess it would be similar to women feeling insecure about their breast size. Not all women do, Not all guys do either. and I agree with you. I only care about her, not the size of her breasts.
it personally annoys me about all these men asking about there size. they should worry about who they are and not whats in there pants.
Some guys feel they ve gotta be MACHO! The need to compete w/other guys in anything comes into play. You re right - it s the GUY that counts - anything else are fringe benefits.
I feel the same way... The size of a penis means nothing to me... its the size of their heart that means the world!
good queston i dont know dudes are weard i just care about the look and personality
ya im a guy and i dont really understand it either
umm b.c bigger is better ( in most case )
I m not sure. It s just kind of a hobby of ours?
they wanna impress girls