What is causing me to bleed when I have sex? Does penis size matter? -

I am a very petite girl standing 4 11quot; tall and 95 lbs. My boyfriend is 5 11quot; tall and has a very large/long penis. Sometimes when he first puts it in, I bleed a lot. I don t experience any pain starting, during, or after sex, but the bleeding is so much initially that we have to stop and clean up before proceeding. It does not happen all the time, but most of the time. I have experienced this before when I have not had sex for awhile and have a new partner that is large, but after the first time, then it doesn t happen again. But with my current boyfriend, it happens almost everytime we have sex. Is he too large/long for me? What could be causing this? Am I tearing something?

Try getting checked by a doctor, because if you are torn down there, then that could lead to infections. There are also sexually transmitted diseases that will cause that as well.

The best thing to do is ask your gynecologist about it. It could be that he is too large, or it could be that you have a shortened or tilted cervix. Talk to your dr. and make sure it isn t anything serious.

You should see your family doctor for sure. It could be that you have a tear and it keeps tearing ever time you have sex. Make sure you have lots of lubrication ....but personally I would see my doctor for sure

yes you are rumpturing your insides he s not for you when you are ment to be with someone threw gods eyes it doesnt hurt it feels like heaven ive been with this a man 14 years he hurts really bad very uncofortable this other man i was with felt like heaven just the right fit

There are a wide range of things that could be causing this-lack of lubrication (which is easy to correct with a commercially available lubricant), an infection (which may be easily treated with medication) or the position or angle of your cervix (the cervix moves around quite a bit during the menstrual cycle and so you may find at some points, bleeding is more intense than others.) If it is the last, you may find that different positions help reduce the bleeding. A visit with your health care provider may help clear up some of this and may help you find solutions.

the vagina is made to take alot of punishment but it isnt suppost to bleed when doing so are you on your period? find where the blood is actually coming from and call your gynocologist btw to the first poster, your answers rocks haha

It is very possible that you are correct. Try some lubrication like ky jelly or foreplay that allows for lubrication. Maybe it s just that you are not prepared properly. Then again it is possible that different positions may allow some leeway,

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