How many times should I get sex before the penis gets in without hurting? -

The stretch feeling is uncomfortable. It s tight. I get frustrated because it doesn t get in. They say just do it more often but how long and how often? I m serious.

I was the same and it took about..between 5-10 times doing it for it to stop being uncomfortable. even to this day it hurts a little sometimes.

Doing pilates helps relax the pelvic muscles so it will become more bearable

It took me a while. The best thing was to relax and breathe deep while it went in. It was weird to stop and put in in REAL SLOW, my husband was a good sport and it didn t take long before we didn t have to relax any more.

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You just need to relax a little m ore. I know it...I do it, too. My boyfriend and I have been having sex for over a month now, and it still hurts at penetration. You need to get past the pain and relax a bit. It ll be great! Good luck and use some lube!

It really depends on the person. Some people might get it right away and for some people they may have to do it a few times..

You could also have a hymen that is way too thick---the hymen is a mucus membrane that acts like a covering outside the vagina... If this is too thick it cannot be penetrated during sex. (god I hope you are old enough to be hearing this).... if you continue to have uncomfortable times trying, have a gynecologist check out the hymen... it s a simple procedure to check....

Asking this question is a sign that your body isn t ready for sex. You shouldn t push things - wait until the right time. What s the hurry anyway?